Today, I'm in the mood to answer some question frequently posted to Judson, like "So Jud, when you gonna get one?" or "You sure there isn't anyone out there for you?" or "Jud, I think it's time you found one"
Well, take it cool and relax... sooner or later it will happen, alrite? 
I'm still young, only 18 and have more years ahead of me to let this things happen... right?
Anyway, I thought it interesting to write my views and opinion on a kind of girl I would fall for.
Concerning Personality:
I would like one who can carry herself well, who is ladylike, not rash or over-outspoken, one whom I would be proud to introduce to people as the one that I love.
Also, I like one who can talk (not too much) and also listen well. I don't think I will be able to relate to one who just stares at you quietly.
Caring, a genuine heart for people, generous... that would be an attractive personality. I would love to meet one who sees her life more than just earning money or starting a family and raising kids, but who sees life as a time where we also would live to bring justice and mercy to this world.
I have a heart of things like "IHeartRevolution" and "Soul Action", and would be good to have someone alongside that has a passion similiar to it. I also desire much that people know about God as he should be known as (268 generation, passion and John Piper have been my inspiration on this). So, she should have a sound theology and see God from a right point of view.
She doesn't have to love music and film like I do. I would only ask God that she can appreciate what I do and be an encouragement. That would be very wonderful.
Concerning Dating Views:
Personally, I do not believe in trying out different people to see if the relationship works (e.g. dating one after another). And so, I think I would not fall for a girl with a whole string of ex-boyfriends. It may sort of reflect the person's inability to relate well? To stress a point, I have nothing againts such people, in fact I care for them a lot, as failed relationships can be a very painful and hurting thing. Only I do not think I would pursue a relationship with one who has such an experience.
Concerning Looks:
This is the interesting part. People always say, looks come second. Haha, well... to be REALLY honest, I would love the best of both worlds. I appreciate beauty a lot, and I have this thing for greeks and eurasians. Haha. Anyway, I think I would love one who knows how to control her diet? Like not over-eat? I think girls who starve themselves are silly and so are those who just over-eat.
Oh, many guys always talk about a girl's body part that gets their attention. I'm not like that. Maybe I'm abnormal. But I look at the face...haha... her eyes. Not her chest size or leg shape... I like to look at people's face when I talk, not anywhere else. It feels rude to me to talk to a girl and stare at somewhere else. Haha.
And oh, if she has a beautiful smile, it would be irresistible.
Okay, I think that is about it. I would like to say to those who feel under-pressure to be in a relationship. Relax, it's better to get a good one later and suffer in a bad relationship now. I believe that a rise and fall of a man is very much affected by his wife. So, trust God and pray
People I tag:
EuniceL
Daniel Teoh (2 more years? hehe)
JamesT